#1: Check out this beautiful video of Will Smith (The audio is out of time but if you close your eyes and just listen, it can’t bother you) #2: Take one piece of advice and use it in your life You’re never going to see just how incredible you are, and no-one is going to be inspired by you if you just keep doing the same thing over and over again. You have to make a change. To help you make this change, I have…
When I was young, I used to spend every weekend at the beach. I’d take my first steps onto the cool sand at 7am and wouldn’t turn my golden brown, salt stained back on it till 7 or 8 that night. But for as long as I can remember, I’ve been afraid of the beach. Not all of it, just two very specific fears: Sharks and big waves. There’s no rational reason for it.When was the last time someone was taken by a shark on…
For as long as I can remember, I’ve had a dream. The contents of that dream has changed over time, but the core has stayed the same: I dreamt of having a loving, caring, beautiful girlfriend, an automated income stream, being able to do what I want, go where I want, connect with whoever I wanted, and do it all in a tropical paradise. For so long, this vision has driven me forward, passionately and relentlessly. It’s what got me out of bed in the…
I was half way though my morning bag* of Mango and Pineapple Juice and nearly finishing a coaching call, when I was asked an all too familiar question: “How do I experience more excitement in my life?” That’s right, you’re not the only one who feels like things are a bit stale, a bit repetitive, and a bit bland. And if you’re ready to start flooding your life with passion and energy, then there’s something very simple you can do: Think back to the moments…
I just read a great story about a guy who’s just made his first US$1 million. And it took him less than 3 years. He was floundering at a shitty job, getting paid next to nothing, and then one day, he snapped. He decided that things were going to change. That mediocre wasn’t enough any more. That he was going to take control of his life. 3 years later, he has US$1 million in the bank. Would you like to know what changed? He didn’t…
When emotions are high and feelings are hurt, it can be easy to blame other people for how you feel. It’s FAR easier to sit back and say “You made me feel angry!” or “You’ve upset me!” than to take responsibility. But do other peoples actions, external objects, and unwanted outcomes really dictate how you feel? Well… It might seem like it on the surface. It might seem like the what that old friend accidently blurted out at the dinner party MADE you feel bad….
Most people will tell you they want an incredible life. They want an amazing partner, a fulfilling job, a beautiful house, and great friends. But in reality, they don’t. What they REALLY want is something far less glamorous. It’s FAR safer, more secure, and MUCH less challenging. They don’t want excitement, they want comfort. They don’t want adventure, they want safety. They don’t want open, free, and honest relationships, they want validation and acceptance. Now before you run off and say “Well, that’s not me,…
If you don’t know what life you want to create, you’ll never be able to create it. If you can’t dream your future, if you can’t imagine the life you want, you’ll never, ever get there. So dare to dream. And don’t just dream, dream big! The bigger the goal, the larger the payoff, the harder you’re going to work and the more rewarding it’s going to be. Give yourself time and space to find what you really want. Devote at least 1 hour a…